Just in case, you know, a Witch happens to curse me and transform me into %(another gender)! I’m totally cis I swear!!!
No bully turtle. You mean.
I agree, if he doesn’t want to tell you leave him alone. As much as people are going to hate me for this you are not entitled to knowing or being told about someone’s gender identity if they don’t want to tell you and prying or demanding to know otherwise or worse semantically trying to determine it using “signs” is incredibly disrespectful.
A pansexual partner is also an option. I am not picky.
The best thing to have is a partner than loves you, if they really love you it shouldn’t be an issue.
I do wo der if a hetero/gay partner would consider “becoming” bi or pan just based on them liking one how one is. Like, if ya came out to yer boy/girl/enby-friend, if they’d consider just being fine with it.