what should i do? lol

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    11 months ago

    Beware, this is a dangerous path! Harnessing such powerful black magick is not for weak minded! Too much and it will corrupt you and you will become … TRANS! I too once started out with thigh highs and spinning skirts, but I wasn’t strong enough, Arch Linux was too much for me to handle, now you have been warned!

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      I really hope this is a joke because the egg stuff can be quite hurtful to femboys and GNC people, it’s often used against them to say that they’re just trans girls in-denial (especially for the ones who took feminizing hormones). Just for clarity to call a Femboy a girl when they don’t want it, is misgendering, calling them an egg is extremely disrespectful and invalidates their gender identity.

      I know this might’ve been a joke but all too often these kinds of things are said in contexts where it isn’t a joke and comes off as hurtful. Also it’s often very hard for people to tell because one person may say it as a joke but another person may mean it whole heatedly.

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          GNC stands for Gender Non-conforming, sorry I didn’t clarify that. I thought most people knew what it means.

          Though I guess the Egg stuff can also be quite harmful to Genderfluid people too since a lot of times they are either very ignorant or inconsiderate towards genderfluid people, thankfully it doesn’t happen here on the Fediverse (at least mostly) but it was quite the problem back in the day on Reddit.

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            tysm for telling me. >w< now i know, i think joking about Egg stuff is not a good idea, cause as you said it hurts genderfluid people and i dont like when people are getting hurt :(

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          So, “egg” is a popular description of trans people who don’t yet know/accept/think of themselves as trans. Not a precise description but it gets the jist across. The idea being, they’re still in their shell, they haven’t cracked it and grown into themselves yet. There are people out there who think masculine girls and feminine boys are just eggs, essentially trans and in denial about it. It can be a bit of a touchy subject. The above persons comment honestly gave me that vibe, so I wanted to say something about it

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    11 months ago

    Get yourself any of the following:

    Skirts you can spin in

    Dresses

    Thigh high socks

    Stockings

    Try to shave your arms and or legs

    Grow out your hair

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    11 months ago

    Experiment, if you like female clothing get as much as you can and if you really like it slowly add it in small ways into your outfits

    Jewelry might also be cool earrings? What about a choker? F