• gapbetweenus@feddit.de
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    10 months ago

    Also you are not getting bullied because you don’t have cigarettes or smartphones, but because you lack self confidence and because you are perceived as social weak (your friends and random bystanders would not come to your help).

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      10 months ago

      No, you are getting bullied because humans beings are morons who will jump to bully whoever is perceived as different. Do not blame the victim, for fuck sake.

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          10 months ago

          Well good fucking job evolution, you managed to screw over autistic people who have empathy while psychopaths who know how to fake it get to abuse everyone

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            10 months ago

            I mean, they wouldn’t even survive if we were still living under the survival of the fittest stuff, which our society doesn’t allow most of the time 🤔

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      10 months ago

      You have completely misunderstood this and are trying to overlay some bizarre Andrew Tate-esque psychobabble to explain your misunderstanding.

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          10 months ago

          You have drawn an incorrect conclusion about the specifics of the social mechanics and cited it as “from your experience” after presenting it as fact.

          You could simply have a poor grasp of social mechanics, or be misinformed, misunderstood the original premise but ultimately it doesn’t really matter.

          You implied lack of conformity and participation is not a cause of bullying - it absolutely is, its probably the original cause of most bullying.

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            10 months ago

            A lot of words to say that you disagree, without actually explaining why bullies are not targeting kids who are at social disadvantage.