Hi everyone!
I am F21. I have a boyfriend (M20). We are in relationship approximately 1 month (before that we was best friends for 7 or even more years).
We have a lot in common an I really love him (and as I know he too).
We started dating as I accidentally saw my photo on his laptop (I already liked him). After asking him what was that he told me that he liked me for a long time and was afraid to tell me that.
As our personalities - we are typical “otaku” (anime nerds), so we always had hanged out together in the past.
Now everything fine, I really like him, but I am bothered about him being trembling every single time I am close. I know for sure that I am the only one he likes to talk (we are both extremely quiet personalities) and we are together 99% of time. And this happens only if I take his hand or hug him.
I don’t want to ask him about this because I afraid he will get ashamed of this.
Should I worry?
Maybe ask him if he has contact aversion?
Some folks can just be extra sensitive to touch in certain ways and need time to adjust if they’re in a situation where those touches become normal.
Most people touching me in a specific spot will make me actually jump out of my skin, it’s like the feeling of a light but continuous shock, but the lady I be crushin’ for is able to touch the same spot and it feels fine.
Probably he just needs time to acclimate, and if it’s something more than that then there’s no big deal there either.