I can often feel them swelling just before they cum and the throbbing, but less so with condoms. Without condoms, I can almost always feel the cum, and if I’m not already also cumming it usually pushes me over the edge.

I can feel throbbing, especially if I contract my muscles around it and he’s not fucking me too fast. I can’t always feel when they finish - it depends on if I’m close to orgasm or if we cum at the same time… if we do I definitely won’t feel it, I’ll just feel mine.