• vzq@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    2 months ago

    The ND-radar is real.

    There are so many undiagnosed people walking around just wondering why they can’t seem to get their life together the way NTs expect them to, blaming themselves for it. I try to promote self-acceptance in the broadest sense and see what happens.

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      2 months ago

      Wow, that last sentence really hit home for me. Maybe one day I’ll get my life together… one day…

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      2 months ago

      Yes, my psychiatrist told me how his adult patients had some patterns in their lives. I started to pay attention and I can’t believe how similar our stories can be. Anecdotes that are the same, the same challenges… Now I can kindly suggest an evaluation when I see someone struggling 👍.

      Edit: I just realized I posted on the autism community. I am not autistic, sorry. I hope it’s okay.

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      2 months ago

      I say self acceptance, as in love and forgive yourself, but also self-improvement, as in practice useful skills and habits a little bit each day to transform what one is capable of.