I saw that other post about worst dates and honestly can’t relate since I’ve never dated anyone, I just wanted to know if I was the only one here. That’s it, you don’t have to go deeper if you don’t want to

  • NorthWestWind@lemmy.world
    18·
    1 个月前

    Having a relationship is a bonus for me. Not having one is normal, and I don’t mind.

    Also that’s like a few hundred things that I don’t have to worry about.

    • Platypus@lemmings.worldOP
      212·
      1 个月前

      The final purpose is to reproduce, in theory. And I would like to be a father, I feel like I could become a decent one

      • brygphilomena@lemmy.world
        81·
        1 个月前

        The final purpose is to be happy with someone. With or without kids.

        There is no true underlying purpose to a relationship. There are adventures to share together if you are both into them. But there doesn’t need to be some ulterior goal. Dating is just enjoying and wanting to spend time together.

        Did you have another Lemmy account on leminal.space? If you did and are the same person I’m thinking of. You spend A LOT of time thinking and talking about relationships. And that account always came across like they wanted a relationship but didn’t want to put in any work to get one or work on themselves. They always spoke as if there was no hope and already prejudged women as if they never would like them.

        • classic@fedia.io
          2·
          1 个月前

          It’s interesting how I immediately know the account you are talking about (even if I don’t recall the username). Their response to your comment is also on-brand