• RedditWanderer@lemmy.world
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      6 hours ago

      This place is just as toxic as reddit lol, it was a valid question.

      Edit: and before people get confused by my username, I haven’t been back to reddit since the day RIF stopped working.

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        7 hours ago

        Exactly, gender isn’t important. You could have done the convenient thing and they/themed the imaginary waiter. Why did you choose to go to the effort of assigning a gender when gender has nothing to do with your point?

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          Because it doesn’t actually matter what gender I used so I went with she and didn’t put much thought into it. I didn’t think people would be so soft headed as to actually give a shit because it isn’t relevant to the point at all. If I had said “he” nobody would have given a shit, something is wrong with y’all.

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        10 hours ago

        It’s not an attack, you don’t need to get so defensive. It just stood out to me.

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          10 hours ago

          Because serving is a female dominated industry where I am I guess?

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              Nobody is less important to me than you and your dumb ass opinion on the genders of waiters that has absolutely zero bearing on the point getting made.