• Kusimulkku@lemm.ee
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    7 hours ago

    If everyone else thought she was flirting then I think it makes the situation a bit more complicated

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      3 hours ago

      Everyone keeps saying she was flirting, but I really think she was just trying to make a friend, but everyone saw ‘flirting’ because of their genders. The post literally says she has no friends.

      This is why women tend to be wary of friendships with guys; any time we do, we get come on to because any amount of friendly interaction is perceived as flirting, or ditched because the guy we thought we were trying to befriend finds out we have a boyfriend.

      Shit, if I were this girl who struggled to make friends, thought I had found one finally, but get friend-dumped when they find out they can’t fuck me (for the millionth time in her life, I’m sure), I’d probably quit, too.

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        1 hour ago

        She could’ve been trying to make a friend and it was all an unfortunate misunderstanding. Both having been a bit more forward about things could’ve helped.

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      5 hours ago

      Indeed. But some people come across like that. I had a friend who never realised they were seeming super flirty all the time when really they were just being nice to people.

      Also 4chan so easily a lie.

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        4 hours ago

        If it was accidentally (she didn’t realize) then could be just an unfortunate misunderstanding.