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Cake day: July 3rd, 2023

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  • Absolute people pleaser to a fault. I’ve had my pendulum period of adjustment (meaning I fluctuated between being too nice and being an asshole) over a couple of years ago. Glad to say that I’m at that Goldilocks spot of being courteous/tactful without being too much of a jerk (unless warranted).

    Hindsight being 20/20, it was really painful to look back on just how much I bent my back over/hoops I had to jump through to just please people/avoid their displeasure. The rage upon finding out i was being duped/used is real, but I’m glad I had some sort of a support system to smooth out the rough edges of my temper. 0/10 would not let anyone go through this.

    Remember: trashy peoples’ opinion of you are a dime a dozen, and there are more than a dozen toxic people out there.

    Choose wisely who you spend your fucks on.




  • My first birthday.

    I have no memories of it that I recall, but I do have pictures. Everyone was happy, problems were much simpler back then. It is what these photos trigger in me that make it a favorite childhood memory, though there are much more memories.

    Not that I long for those days again, rather I look at them with appreciation and cherish those memories in pictures, even if my one y.o. self could not retain those moments in my memory at the time.

    I used to (ignorantly) find taking pictures pointless. Looking back, I’m glad I had pictures of important moments like these. Not the SOCMED kind, but the truly special moments, the snapshots of our lives.



  • Saying shhhh pag nakabagsak ka ng gamit.

    It’s just so funny ung (silly) concept of removing all responsibility from you being the one na nakalaglag ng gamit by implying a shhh mo na ibang tao ung nakabagsak and hindi ikaw.

    I’ve seen and heard this much from my parents to the point that i unwittingly do it from time to time (though I try to limit it).

    I guess it’s the false sense of comfort you feel by convincing yourself na hindi ikaw ung nakabagsak ng gamit kaya lagi nila ginagawa un LMAO.