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Cake day: June 11th, 2023

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  • Acceptance.

    Accept that you are imperfect.

    Accept that all humans are imperfect.

    Give light apologies out of respect if necessary, but know that you did what you could and it’s ok that you failed to do more, so don’t take the failure to heart.

    Life is short, and living in anxiety takes away your quality of life like a sickness.

    If guilt doesn’t improve your life, then it needs to be cut out.

    Your happiness is more important than someone else getting a prompt answer.

    Respect yourself.




  • In the corridors of Voyager, a shadow stands, A soul entwined by fate’s own hands. From a flash of light, two lives were sewn, Into one, I stand alone.

    Oh, they wanna transport my heart in two, Split me apart, what can I do? Caught in a Starfleet riddle, Playing sorrow like a fiddle.

    Each step echoes with voices twined, Tuvok’s wisdom with Neelix’s kind. A single life from a broken beam, Living a nightmare, dressed as a dream.

    I am but a whisper of both their wills, A spectral dance of unforeseen ills. In their eyes, I see the pain, A heart divided, must I wane?

    The captain stands with a heavy choice, In her hands, the end of my voice. For the good of two, must one fade away? In the echoes of stars, hear my plea to stay.

    As I dissolve in the transporter’s glow, Remember the life that they forgo. A fleeting whisper in the cosmic sea, Tuvix lives on, let my spirit be free.



  • Diagnosed as ADHD but definitely have more going on.

    When I was a kid I would look down when walking. When I tried to do eye contact it was very difficult and I would feel overwhelmed and my eyes would even start watering up and I would get some other physiological symptoms like coughing or running nose.

    As an adult I have overcome this and I now am the opposite. I stare too much and I don’t look away. I bore right into peoples minds and even though I know it can be disconcerting for others, I do it anyway and I don’t really care. I’m not sure why I do this, but it might be part defense mechanism and part desire for connection and understanding.

    Most others soon realize that I don’t obey social cues and they feel uncomfortable and distance themselves. But that works for me since I am introverted and somewhat antisocial. People say I am “intense”.


  • I think it makes evolutionary sense why a female in their peak of childbearing age would be attractive. But just because there is attraction doesn’t mean that it should be acted upon.

    Personally, I can appreciate the beauty of a young adult, but they are not sexually attractive to me because I seek intimacy, and I know that a young adult’s mind is not mature enough to connect with me on that level.

    Each of us should strive to surpass our base animalistic desires and replace them with carefully thought out ethical standards that make us proud of ourselves.

    I doubt that it would benefit a young persons development to date someone much older than them. Although, I do accept that we learn mostly from mistakes.