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Agreed! I really have no idea why it is so rare… I often have to search really hard to find content of that sort. Another thing that really inspired this com was that most of softer content I could find often had the man/masculine partner (if one was present) more on the giving side of comfort/affection. Not that there is anything wrong with that of course, I just wanted to create a space that allowed for, and maybe normalized a little, masculine people being softer and vulnerable and cared for in a healthy way.
I’ll stop myself before I go on a rant
Ha! Maybe I should follow your example.
I suppose at the end of the day expectations and stereotypes on all ‘sides’ are what can lead to a lot of problems.