Yeah, but society at large has issues with exceptional gender expressions.

Cis people can struggle with their own gender identity when other cis people force expectations onto them.

The difference is that cis people don’t have to assert a gender different from what they were assigned at birth.

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I’m literally not but you clearly have no interest in understanding the words I wrote, so I’ll just drop it.

practically everybody has been told to behave differently because “boys do X” or “girls do Y”.

I wish people would leave me the fuck alone when they think I’m not being a man correctly.

This is what I mean by ‘on a surface level.’

Oppositional sexism demands that those born in male bodies do masculine things, and those born in female bodies do feminine things. In other words it demands that everybody, not just those who are trans, conform to socially expected performances of gender.

However, cis people are afforded the security in feeling that their birth gender is the one that is ‘correct’ for them.

Cis people largely feel gender entitlement (projecting one’s own perception of gender onto other people, and privileging those perceptions over the way others understand themselves), hence:

A lot of people don’t really care much about what their gender is

Trans people do not get this privilege. Trans people face the same oppositional sexism that cis people do (that all people that exhibit exceptional gender expressions do), as well as having to face cis people’s gender entitlement being pushed onto them.

All this to say the joke is that the subject of the meme is in denial about their transness, and they are assuming that everybody feels the same way. The meme is a transfem centered meme- cis people may not get the joke; however many people DO care about their gender identity, but some identities are privileged over others.

On a surface level, sure, but most cis people never really have to grapple much with their gender identity.

Yeah, don’t even worry about it, you’re good!

This one’s pretty apt I think.

Anyway it’s not really a problem until it is, I just noticed a slight uptick in hornyposts. I’ve been watching closely for chasers n such so that they can’t take advantage of the posting culture we have here and it’s been alright so far.

And also to make sure anything involving the younger posters doesn’t get too weird.

y’all are getting too horny i swear

Omg so true worstie

Bespoke: I can make her worse

She went AWOL a few months ago.

arlecchino my beloved

(HRT is considered life saving medicine to a lot of trans people)

I mean…

Sounds like a them problem.

realrealreal

answering for myself- as long as i’ve known always been a hot girl*

*results may vary

You’re grasping at straws and this entire post is proof of it.

we (the instance as a whole) only think of the rest of you when a post gains enough traction to hit /all/active. (on hexbear)

I (as an individual) actively use this account (on blahaj.zone) for instances and posts that don’t federate with hexbear

hope this helps!

I actively use this account for instances and posts that don’t federate with hexbear. Mainly trans and dev spaces.

I see hexbear red-scare posts in random topics because you people can’t help yourself.