Aww you’re such a cutie I would woof you so hard

Not everyone with breasts is a woman, or queer for that matter. There are plenty of bigger guys with moobs. I’d like to know if those daddies get off on nipple/breast play as much as I do.

Someone please fuck me in this mormon baptist meth factory town

Sounds like I should bark woof at some of them, since I guess it isn’t rude.

You travel a lot. My last 6 months have been back-to-back classes and I don’t see that changing in the near future. I’m not familiar with deep clean techniques, but you reminded me I should probably buy some wet naps. 😸

I’m now on Recon and Scruff. No hits so far, but I do have a few positive things to say about the latter: you can sideload the app, the UI is slick (but at times confusing; still haven’t used the “woof” feature afaik), the boys on there are slightly more attractive than the Recon users, there are more of them, and there are trans people. One thing I noticed is that at least half of the guys here really like their facial hair. I know there’s supposedly a gene that triggers that attraction, but I can’t personally relate.

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Cute cute cute, and classy.

I pulled them off to make Unix jewelry

Homie is a nice European guy who dabbles in software as I do. We met in the software (which I won’t name because its community is very small). There are currently issues with its VR driver integration on Linux, so I played in desktop mode while he fondled my cute little avatar. There is a concept of “phantom sense” which some people experience. Different social VR clients have different degrees of sophistication in different areas. Some clients give you hand collision but no arm IK, some both, some neither. I wasn’t using the actual VR part, so I stood there and talked to him while he had fun with me, similar to sex with a quadriplegic. :P

A friend felt me up in VR for a few hours. It was nice. We also talked about local/municipal LGBT groups, so I looked into it and there is a meeting this Friday.

I also created an account on Recon, and it seems like most of the users are over 60. -.- Reached out to 5 guys in my age range as the days ticked by. One of them responded, but he has a very standoffish personality that doesn’t inspire confidence. Not sure if he’ll want to meet or if me simply calling him a “good boy” was too much. I thought it was a site for men.

The sad reality is that when you look at the files being requested, it’s usually scrapers looking for exploits.

When you bring threads into it, these exotic features make more sense. I have been doing single-threaded stuff for the most part.

I just never learned smart pointers and write C++ code like it’s C for aesthetic reasons.

I’ve been using C++ almost daily for the past 7 years and I haven’t found a use for shared_ptr, unique_ptr, etc. At what point does one stop being a noob?

Friends with benefits and romance. Ideally, I’d like openly queer and kinky partners who are openly queer and kinky everywhere and don’t try to hide it, and for those relationships to last, and if they don’t I need valid reasons why not. Maybe even marriage one day.

In terms of Recon being intense, I very much need that BDSM dynamic. I don’t have to call him “master” when we’re at a coffee shop because that might be weird for the other guests, but I’ve been a part of the kink scene for a while and see no reason to hide it. 19 can be too young depending on their level of experience. I dated a 19-year-old transgirl a few years ago who was more mature than I am now. Of course, the hillbilly community college crowd has a mental age of about 10. It’s hell here.

I don’t mean to complain. I very much want a hardcore sadist partner or two who participate in the community, and if 10% of the population fits the description then everyone I know is playing coy.

No real fun in the past few months, but I’ve been having interesting conversations with my queer acquaintances. A surprising number of people are ace. Celibacy makes me sad, and I’m starting to see the point of stuff like Grindr/Scruff/Recon. The trouble is that I’d really like to bottom for younger boys, and at the same time I need the emotional/sexual security that comes with a long-term relationship. So many people have never even done anal and are only “queer” in the sense of bicurious or whatever. I’m 31, I’m past that shit, and I’m seriously not happy in my own skin and need that external stimulus to get past my own complexes, and it’s damaging to be alone for too long for real.

Sounds like an awesome week!

Hooked up for oral, and ended up spending more time helping set up his account on Apple Business Connect

I can’t stop laughing

I made a thread a couple weeks after dazedandconfused stopped posting, but nobody replied. I’ll share my week.

Friday - went to a BDSM meeting. Met a woman 20 years older than me whose son shares my name. Could be a kinky time at some point in the future. Tuesday - went to an LGBTQ meeting and finally had an open conversation about actual sexual topics. This group took some warming up. Not sure if any boys want to date me, but we’ll see.