• Praise Idleness@sh.itjust.works
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    10 months ago

    Teenage years are short, a degree lasts forever. Considering how people without a top-notch university degree are treated, I’d much prefer no childhood than such a degrading life in general. People visibly frown at you or change topics when you tell them which school you’re in, as if they heard about some tragic disaster.

    If you’re going to university, you’ll be fine regardless of where it ranks.

    It’s a country where almost everyone is a college graduate, and only a few are actually considered to be college-educated. Some people even hide their degrees to land a job at a sweatshop or something.

    Yes, it’s messed up. But I jokingly tell my parents that they should’ve been way harder on me than they were because I only got into where I ended up, which I think was very lucky, but not the best either. Yes, I’m a big conformist, one of the qualities Korean culture requires that I’ve learned over the years.

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      10 months ago

      Everything you’ve written on this thread is very depressing. What is even the point? Why does anyone even want to live in Korea? It sounds like an absolute nightmare tbh.

      I’d expect to be mass immigration away from Korea.

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        10 months ago

        It’s not trivial for most people to leave their home, culture, language, family, friends, etc and move to another country

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          10 months ago

          I know… but my country has way more emigration and it doesn’t suck nearly as bad as Korea…

          *And also, I know I would 100% feel differently if I was born in Korea, but I would resent the fuck out of my parents, culture and government if that was my life. People joke China is cyberpunk, but South Korea seems way more dystopic.

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        10 months ago

        Just as an anecdote: there is a huge Korean population in Canada. I’d say there is currently a mass emigration, but I suppose only for those able to afford it and want leave at the same time.

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      10 months ago

      That’s so alien to me. Well congrats on making it through that meat grinder of a system in one piece!