The whole world is turning into incels. Its not that there is no one to fuck but that everyone has crippling social anxiety.
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Embracing the solitude after 7 years of a toxic relationship has been a blissful realization i tell ya hwhat.
I feel like i am finally my true self instead of having to conform to someone else’s notion of what a “boyfriend” should be. I turned 30 this year and i dont think ive peaked yet. The best is yet to come and my confidence is sky high.
Sorry ladies, I’m taken. By the handsome man above my bathroom sink.
God do I envy your mindset. I can’t even look in the mirror without wanting to strangle the ugly pile of human trash that I see reflected back at me.
Go easy on him, hes doing his best
Loving yourself is hard. I used to think, “I just need to change/improve, then I’ll be someone I can love,” but I realized that is putting the cart before the horse. You can’t change or improve until you love yourself, because the reality is that when you change or improve, you are still the same person you were, just with new skills, a new haircut, new clothes, whatever. That person you hate never goes away. You just have to love them as they are, and accepts their shortcomings and flaws.
Reminds me of my favorite Kurzgesagt video: Optimistic Nihilism
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It is said that comparing yourself to others is not a good idea. Instead, compare yourself to your old self.
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Sometimes you can find peace in the strangest ways and places!
But what if I’m doing worse than my old self
Gotta think about the reasons and doing something about it then 🙂
As an autist in solitude for 8-9 years who has had a long term romantic relationship for 7-8 years. The overall happiness level for me has been slightly better single and abstinent. There are positives and negatives from both ways of life but happiness does usually equalize
solitude is the highest state of human existence
Why bother with the human experience, after all, if we’re doomed to eventually forget it?
Parted from kin, banished to a lonely place, I wonder why my heart feels so little anguish and pain.
Consulting Zhuang Zi (daoist writer), I find where I belong. Surely my home is there in Not-Even-Anything land.
Po Zhou Yi, 815 AD.
Nothing better than solitude.
Acceptance is the final stage of grief
This man is halfway to Nirvana already
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After a couple of bad relationships, I stopped caring about getting married, it took a weight off my back.
Bruh, that’s how Odium wins though
He’s gonna catch so much trim now.
Meh, I just found some locals in the SW community, turns out being good with your mouth makes you a well liked enough client to start making legit friends
Southwest? Smith and wesson? Sherlock and Watson?
Sex workers.
Exactly. Just don’t mention jar jar binks and you find friends in no time.
Don’t mention him, but having a tongue like his tho…
That’s it, your speaking privileges are revoked