• NOPper@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    I’m just gonna throw out there that I’m a fan of hair, but it ain’t mine to judge or control. People need to chill out a bit lol

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      8 months ago

      Even if you’re a fan of hair, I’m sure the concept of “you need a haircut” is valid to you too, I don’t usually mind either way but once had a FWB who did zero trimming and it was… Not ideal.

      Almost everyone does a bit of hedge trimming even if they keep the bush

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        8 months ago

        What are basing this on? You can wash your hair just like everywhere else during regular showers.

        I’d like to implore you to consider why these aesthetic standards of what’s ideal are what they are and why they exist

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          8 months ago

          They are what they are because people find it more attractive.

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          8 months ago

          So, you grow your head hair down to your knees, then? Never cut your fingernails?